I think I need to make some things known on here. I think there has been too much going on on this blog, and I need to change some things.
In short, I started this blog for two purposes. First, I wanted for my dear friends to read about my day. What goes through my mind, what I enjoy, what have you. Second, I wanted to provide said dear friends a way to communicate with me. That is why I have enabled comments, where other boards do not.
Oftentimes, I am looking to give encouragement. I love to type things that make other people smile. That's why I posted the goofy sign. It made me smile. (By the way...in case you were wondering, and you probably were...North, South and Dennis is a joke on Homestar Runner. Strong Bad invented a game based on one of those old role-playing games. The promptor tells him that the available directions are North, South, and Dennis. Okay, so I thought it was funny.)
Some days, though, I need an encouraging word myself. There have been times when I have posted how blah I feel on X day. I tend to not go into too much detail, because we don't need that. For the most part, comments made to this blog have been very encouraging. I have seen so many people leave notes that say simply, "Love ya!" and that would make my day.
However, there have been some discouraging ones. Like...people pointing out what I have done wrong...why they would have to side with the other person (like there was any kind of debate!), etc. That's disappointing to me. I like to believe that I am a good person, loved by God, and saved by His blood. When people continue to discourage me, especially when I know that I did the best that I could, it makes me discouraged.
That said, I do not for a moment claim to be a perfect person. I make mistakes just like anyone else. There is not a person in the world that is perfect. If there were, there would be no need for Jesus's death and resurrection. But I have to come home at the end of the day knowing that I have done the best I could do, and learn from the mistakes I have made, as well as triumph in my successes. I think that this is what this blog is about.
There are some things I won't talk about on this blog, mainly because it involves people I know and dearly care about. If I feel for a minute that someone would be bothered by me posting something, I won't post it. I know of at least one occasion that someone was bothered by something I posted, that I meant as a joke. But I changed it the MOMENT it was bought to my attention. No defensiveness, none of that. That is not censorship nor "not being true to myself," as some would call it. That is consideration for others.
In short? I like encouraging, goofy, funny comments. They make my day. However, discouraging comments make my day hard. You know what I am saying?
A good word of advice for anyone leaving a comment on ANYONE'S blog (and I apologize, because I hate unsolicited advice, and you probably do too)...Imagine if the situation were reversed, and you were the one that was receiving the comment. Would your feelings be hurt? Or even better (since I am more sensitive than most...), would I appreciate someone talking to my mother that way? Then go from there.
Okay, I will step down from my soapbox now. :-)